I didn't blog yesterday and I'm pretty upset about it. Have you ever felt like your life had to be together immediately? And if it isn't, everything will fall apart? I'm doing my best not to look at life that way, but I feel as though I have a lot on my plate. I know… Continue reading Overwhelmed

Close enough

When do we realize that some relationships just won't work. Is it when you start to break down and abuse one another verbally and perhaps physically. When do you say I've had enough? Sometimes I feel like I'm giving up on people and relationships, like I should be putting in more work. Why? Don't I… Continue reading Close enough

Your bondage wasn’t meant for me

My black skin, my strong features, my curvy figure... who am I? My self-hate, my dysfunction, my empty pockets… who am I? What did you leave behind for me? Was this your goal? Am I the one to pick up the baton you handed over to me? I don’t want it. I don’t want what… Continue reading Your bondage wasn’t meant for me


I believe this is a question we all ask ourselves. We wonder how other people have gotten to the point where they have everything they need and want in life. Is it just simply money that deems them successful? Are there other factors of success? What're the three points that contribute to our success and… Continue reading Success


You frustrate me so much! You’re always so confrontational with me. Before I even begin to talk to you my emotions start to stir. I know it’s going to be a fight with you because you’re always trying to prove something to me. Why? And what is it that you need to prove sister? What… Continue reading Melanin_Simone